Can't Wait.

Well I was single I noticed that most of the time when men or women complained about the prospects that they had to choose from it was their own fault. It didn't matter if we were in a hole in the wall bar or at a wedding or at a country club. They always went for the same type of person time after time. The famous comedian Ron White says you can't fix stupid and in this case it applies to all of us unless you married one of the first five or six people that you dated. I'm not saying don't do what you want, this is America, who am I to question your choices. After all I did fight for your right to be self destructive in all your endeavors including relationships.

 

So if you want to be in perpetual change of relationship partners by all means continue. Never let it be said that I stood in the way of freedom or the choices there of. That's the greatest thing about our country you don't have to agree with me at all unless your unhappy with your current state of affairs then it may behoove you to consider the possibility that I may have a point with which if taken could better your outlook on love. So if you have grown tired of your position from which you have not triumphed over, maybe you will lend me your ear so I can help you take control of ones choices for the betterment of your situation.

 

Think about what you desire! Do you desire a mate that will be able to live with you then you should consider that you are hard to live with and there for require a mate of extreme patients. Do you desire drive in a mate then you must be prepared to put up with a mate that may want to control the reigns of your relationship so you might have to be submissive. Do you desire faithfulness then you must honestly believe in your heart that if you left for six months strait that your mate would wait tirelessly for your return and seek no other. If you can not trust them out of your sight you might have a problem, just saying.

 

 If your jealous make sure your mate will put up with your antics without faltering. These are just a small portion of things that I came up with and some will not apply to you but once you compile your thoughts into a list of what you really want in a life partner make sure it's realistic because the easiest was to be let down is to put a human on a pedestal. Then when you meet someone new don't waste your time in a relationship unless that person meets the most important of what you want on at least three accounts then on minor ones you may have to compromise besides it's good practice because when you get married you'll be doing a lot of this. compromising I mean. lol. I bet you can't wait. Oh and remember you won't be able to live up to their expectations if you don't love them.