The Uninvited

Usually unless your very humble and when I say humble I mean salt of the earth humble. (If you don't know what salt of the earth humble is then your not but don't worry about it most of us don't even come close.) You have relationships in spite of yourself. Some people are an acquired taste like me and some are easier to swallow bet regardless we are our own worse enemies when it comes to most things but especially when it comes to relationships. Now I know that most of you are like me and when it comes to relationships that everybody else has the problem but I want you to realize if you have very few to no relationships it's your fault.

I, as you can tell from reading this blog, have a issue of just saying what ever I think is right because I have very thick skin and want to help people then I just blurt out the truth because that's what I want to hear myself, strait and to the point. That's why this is the perfect forum for me because you get to read my thoughts then you can turn around to somebody you know and say this Brad guy doesn’t have a clue. Which is fine but I don't know how many times I've said something to someone either kidding or trying to help them just to turn around and try to backtrack after seeing the hurt in their eyes. My family was famous for ruthlessly teasing someone as long as everyone else was laughing and you better not cry about it either.

Of course most people are not thick skinned and regardless how tough they act, they do have feelings and get angry and if your the one that brings that out in them then they are probable not going to want to be around you. So if a relationship is important to you then try not to step on it. Think before you speak. It doesn't matter what my true intentions are, until somebody knows that you are interested in their best interest and trust you no matter what then you have to mind your manners and don't overstep your bounds. Now I know that some of you are saying I'm not like that at all but how many of you only do things that you want to do with your friends, or do you talk about other people all the time or maybe you just want them to come to your house all the time and when your suppose to go there something always comes up and your either late or don't show up at all.

If you want to get on my wife's bad side don't show up to the house after she's been cooking all day. Now she is a lot nicer person then I am and she will probable never say a word about you not showing up and calling a hour after you where suppose to be there but don't be surprised if your never invited back and suddenly we are too busy to make it there. Just something to think about when you claim to be perfect and blame everyone else. Just saying. So now that I've pissed you off to the point that I'll never be invited over again maybe you won't have the same problem.