NEXT!

I think I'm going to have to change Mondays topic because I'm having a hard time coming up with relationship advice and even though I am ecstatic about the readers I have you guys have not been any help in the subject department. Maybe I didn't communicate my selfish needs to you in the best way. I need subjects to write on, any subject. If you don't know me personally leave a comment on this blog. If you do know me then Text. IM, Email me. You can ask questions like why does my wife always take the last meatball at dinner and I might not know the answer but by the time I get done you'll think I Majored in Meatball hording. So if you want to see something pleaaaaaaaassssssseee don't hesitate. Now on with the article.

We drive each other crazy because no matter how long we've been together we just don't think the same ways. Those of you that never have disagreements can turn to the next article. One reason is most men are strait to the point and we get wound up easy. We  don't want anyone taking advantage of our significant other. So when you come home you want us to listen to your problems and then give you sympathy. We can only do this when we've been married for at least  . . . . . well never. Most of us can't help but to try to fix your problems by telling you how to handle the situation. What makes it worse is that when we do give you advise we think problem solved NEXT!

On the other hand most men don't like talking about our problems because when we talk about our problems it only pisses us off again. Then instead of enjoying our family time with you we are fuming about the jerk at work that never pulls his weight or the extra 20 dollar fee they charged us for delivery on a five dollar item or well you get the idea. Another thing you woman must understand is sometimes when you give us advise that makes perfect sense in your world it doesn't work in a mans world or vice versa. It's kind of like a mother giving her son advice on bullies. Sometimes getting suspended for three days is well worth the cost. Something most mothers have never dealt with or understand.

Ok so we can solve this one of two ways. Either we can tell the partner in the beginning what we want such as I'm going to tell you what's going on at work but don't tell me how to fix it which translates to listen and keep your mouth shut until it's time to agree with me and then you better agree. LOL. or you can think before you speak and try to figure out what the other wants from you. defiantly the hardest option. Well their is always option three. Tell your friends about your problems and only run to your significant other when you want results. Good luck.

Oh and by the way I just want you to know just because I write an article about a subject doesn't mean I don't have the same struggles. I do and then some. I try to relay this from time to time in my writing but sometimes I forget because my friends already know I'm screwed up. Until tomorrow Keep your head down and your eye on the ball. Oh and for the women keep your eye on everything and those shoes look fabulous on you.